I come accross and found an interesting post,
I leave a very long comment that i never have done before,
If you are curious about, please go and read the Original Article
I leave a very long comment that i never have done before,
If you are curious about, please go and read the Original Article
Technorati Tags: Marriage Vs Affair, Social Issue
8 Comments Received
June 26th, 2008 @5:19 pm
really, interesting, I also gave out some comment about that
hehe… I think there should be exception, not all guys lolz.
June 27th, 2008 @11:05 am
I read that article but hav no ideas to share yet after reading ur comment make me think even more negative about marriage. I never think that staying wit a wife make a man sacrifice a lot of things, does that an excuse or the real true? I know, am a girl i ll never understand men but I jus wonder if we, the women, make you, the men, that much trouble?
June 27th, 2008 @1:07 pm
forgive me if i make have a bad feeling about marriage. but marriage, if i understand, is a very big event in life. we do expect a lot of things from marriage. my answer is pointed to the relationship after a long time marriage. and it would be better if think also what will happen in the next 2 years or 5 years or 10 years, to prevent it.
we can’t expect only something good will happen, so that you can react and understand when the situation arrive.
i hope it won’t arrive to anybody, but if it does, how can we resolve it and get the way back into love?
i got your last question, when i have time i will answer here or make a new post, please come back later.
June 27th, 2008 @1:51 pm
Wow, i seldom see such a long comment. The topic must have touched your heart and soul that why it made up your mind to write that long comment. Awesome!
June 28th, 2008 @10:39 pm
yeah, this topic is a challenging one. I also posted sth related to that recently.. but mine is more likely a true-love related issues. Well, this topic is interesting and useful cuz we have to know all that so that we can make our marriage life fruitful and stay longer. Love needs growing also. Without attention, of course, love is impossible. So the actions must be done by both parties. I don’t think that it’s guys’ nature’s fault or totally guy’s fault when come to this issue, the other party which is Wife should also bear the responsibility for that. We can just think why or what is the reason that lead to this state? Why guys have an affair then?
November 7th, 2008 @11:48 am
i had link to the original page and read since you said it’s interesting you and inspire you to write a long comment. well here i like to share some of the fact to men.. a fact of human nature..
i agree to an idea that men need new taste and it’s his nature… maybe all of u seek this reason for an apology and understanding of your selfish desire. but what do you understand about women or nature of human, we all are human so does we’ve the same desire and attraction. who don’t want to have another look to a hot handsome guy? and who doesn’t have a desire for new good taste? well what had pull back all the ladies from going the wrong track? it’s all the responsible, respondsible to be a good wife, good mother and good lady in society look. of course there’s not enough factor for pull her back, she had a strong commitment, a commitment since the moment she sign on love agreement, commitment to love him, f aithful to him, bring him all the happiness on earth. of course it’s not enough for women sacrify in her marriage, there she is patience tolerate and flexible. well i would stop all the lady role and sacrified here, my point is just give all men the reflection.. so all the big and strong guy you climb you’re, what can you do for the responsible and commitment?
November 7th, 2008 @4:30 pm
love is a volunteer intentional and what we feel from inside. responsibility is something we need to answer and respond.
i found a contradiction in these two words and that’s what cause, refer to my own experiences, trouble in the relationship.
of course i do agree, being husband and wife we need to have responsibility and commitment. but love doesn’t need those thing and very often love die due to those heavy pressure from others things.
frankly speaking, if everybody do voluntarily or decide by himself to sacrifice, it would save the situation. but in other cases, all actions are done by being asked, i think it won’t save any good feeling to each other.
that’s what i can share.
November 8th, 2008 @10:09 am
I do agree that responsibility and love are two different ways that can never meet in a point, but it need us walking on both ways along to keep relation last. And i do agree respondsibility can do nothing to bring love back as sweet as the begining, yet its pull you stay focus on the same love and never fool around by toxic environment.
KB i believe you are old enough to acknowledge your feeling of love or crush. Love happen as long as both parties can share similar live style, joy, and benefit ofcourse.
I am not try to give advice here, I do believe you’re experienceful to find joy in your different stage love life. I hope you not allow yourself fail again and again because the same reason that YOU CAN’T FIND YOURSELF ENJOY WITH HER LOVE ANYMORE. Thing happen cause of reasons not by chance, and we can say sorry one in a life time for one reason, not twice or many…or it’ll become we do in PURPOSE.
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