the wedding is starting and i am still a wild man 
recently i have joined a lot of wedding and meet a lot of friends that most of them already get married, and when i started to ask them how the married life ? ha ha ha i can’t believed what i got from them.
Suffering with losing the freedom and need to pick up the phone call every 5 minutes make me hesitate to a married life LOL why married life has to be so hard?
so i rise up a campaign here between Single and Married life, so that we all can share our own point of view between these two.
for me i am staying single long enough, i know what i suppose to know, i lived a life on my own for quite sometime now, i think it’s time to start to have a family, got a wife, have children, become a good father and so on. a single life is on your own, but after you married you got another person, it’s your wife. you can’t do the same thing as you was single.
there’s a balance that we need to measure, if you think we have know enough and you are ready to make a chance, then you can move now to have a family. if you think you still want to live on your own for more longer, then you shouldn’t get married. once you get married you will live a life that you never known, i can’t tell how it taste because i didn’t live that life yet, but if any married visitor to khmerbird, they want to share their own feeling about their married life, it would be great, i will sit and read
Related Reading:
wedding in Cambodia
The Misery
Mr. Nobody a film by Jaco Van Dormael
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I also do enjoy my singleness. But now it is time that I have to give up my singleness, or what you said the wildness or freedom. I am not sure which one is better, but for sure, I am gonna miss the doing-whatever-I-want-at-my-pace life. And what more, we will be no longer be able to spend what we earned as we did
so are you going to get married soon? if yes, Congratulation.
for me i love my married life even it was rough once in awhile,quite different hobbies but we always make it out .we talk,respect,help,specialy we both truth and understanding eachother. i told my husband that never ever lie to me even some true story make me hurt but i can accept it and there is nothing in the surrounding mysteries that they can’t handle .
Yes, definitively agree on your principal
you are lucky to get such a nice guy.
yes i am lucky rite now and hope will be like this forever . Eh, why din’t u said he is lucky to have me lols …
he is lucky too, you both are lucky
Everyone who passed a teenage has experience being single life, in fact, a single life was not bad at all. I enjoy being single and likes being single. The single people want to get married, because many reasons. I am just going speak for myself here, let other speak their own reason. At one point, I think age has got me started thinking about married and led me to think about the future of my children. I want to make sure, while the children in developing stage, I capable of being a good father for them in physical and mentally.
all my best wish for you Ratha,
I have all experience with single and married life. But I have nothing to share for you. Hope you try to understand much more yourself is a good way to guide on the right trend.
You live and you learn. Being single is not so bad as long as you are happy but being married doesn’t mean you have to be chained or imprisoned. It just depends on where you are in your journey in life and who you’ve met. I met my soulmate a year ago and my whole outlook on marriage and kids have changed since I met him. Happy searching~